A guide for queer & allied couples dreaming of an unforgettable, breathtaking wedding away from home
Whether you’re eloping with just the two of you or planning an intimate destination celebration with loved ones, these wedding locations offer stunning scenery, rich culture, and once-in-a-lifetime vibes.
1. Hawaii, United States
What makes it magical:
Volcano-carved landscapes, rainforests, and beaches where the world feels untouched. The islands carry a sense of wonder that makes every moment feel like something magical.
Why couples love it:
- Breathtaking views of beautiful beaches, vibrant tropical gardens, hidden waterfalls and dramatic volcanic landscapes.
- Opportunity to immerse yourselves in culture with a lei exchange or a lava rock ceremony
- Affordability or luxury available
2. Los Cabos, Mexico
What makes it magical:
Sun-drenched cliffs, turquoise waters, and a vibrant blend of desert and sea. Arrive along the shore, exchange vows with the ocean breeze, and celebrate with margaritas under the stars.
Why couples love it:
- Nationwide Marriage equality + many welcoming all-inclusive resorts
- Wide range of venue options, from luxurious beachfront resorts, private villas, jungle-like farms & even boats
- Comfortable, warm temperatures and clear skies from November-April
3. San Francisco, California
What makes it magical:
Misty mornings, beautiful architecture and hills that spill into the bay. A city where modern energy meets timeless romance.
Why couples love it:
- Iconic backdrops (Golden Gate Bridge, coastal cliffs, city hall, skylines)
- Variety of venues—from elegant city hotels to outdoor parks overlooking the bay
- Easy for guests to travel in and explore both city life and nature
4. Spain
What makes it magical:
Sun-soaked plazas, ancient stone streets, and nights that stretch long into the morning. A place where history and passion weave through every detail.
Why couples love it:
- Wide range of settings: castles, vineyards, seaside resorts, or historic cities
- Incredible food and wine culture
- Built-in honeymoon with beaches, mountains, and culture all nearby
5. New Zealand
What makes it magical:
Snowcapped peaks, mirror-like lakes, and rolling green that stretches forever.
Why couples love it:
- Remote, intimate locations far from the crowds
- Adventure-filled experiences (hiking, heli-tours, sailing)
- Breathtaking variety: mountains, fjords, beaches
6. Costa Rica
What makes it magical:
Volcano views, jungle backdrops, and hot springs everywhere. Perfect for adventurous couples.
Why couples love it:
- Lush tropical backdrops for outdoor ceremonies year-round
- Resorts that specialize in destination weddings
- A balance of relaxation and adventure for guests
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7. Argentina
What makes it magical:
Patagonia offers towering peaks, turquoise lakes, and skies that feel endless. Raw, breathtaking, and untamed, perfect for couples who want their love story framed by some of the most dramatic landscapes on earth. The city of Buenos Aires offers grand boulevards, tango in the streets, and a pulse of energy that never slows. A city of elegance, passion, and celebration.
Why couples love it:
- Stunning historic venues with European-inspired architecture
- Intimate lodges and luxury resorts with sweeping mountain views
- Exceptional food, wine, and music that create a lively celebration atmosphere
8. Cape Town, South Africa
What makes it magical:
Rugged cliffs, endless ocean, and Table Mountain rising behind the city. A mix of wild landscapes and urban energy that feels larger than life.
Why couples love it:
- Jaw-dropping venues overlooking both mountain and sea
- Access to world-class food, wine, and hospitality
- Destination that offers once-in-a-lifetime guest experiences (safaris, vineyards, beaches, gardens)
9. Southern Iceland
What makes it magical:
Black-sand beaches, glaciers that glow blue, and waterfalls that feel pulled from another world.
Why couples love it:
- Ceremony or intimate vows at Skógafoss or in a lava field
- Northern Lights sightings in winter months + endless day light in the summer months
- A surreal sense of being on another planet
10. Aruba
What makes it magical:
Endless ocean views, soft white sands, and fiery sunsets that paint the horizon every night.
Why couples love it:
- Dependably sunny weather with minimal rain
- Beachfront resorts with stunning views for every part of the day
- Easy travel hub in the Caribbean, perfect for guests flying in
Tips for Destination Weddings
- Choose the right season: keep in mind weather, tourist seasons, and any local holidays. Your dream spot might be crowded or stormy at certain times of year.
- Check legal requirements: know if you want to marry abroad (or legally marry at home first!)
- Send save-the-dates early: (typically 8–12 months ahead) so people can plan travel and time off.
- Budget for extras: Factor in travel, shipping fees, baggage costs, or required vendor accommodations.
